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want healthy love?

I help singles heal from the past, rewire their nervous system so that finally attract a healthy, aligned partner. Without settling or doing more of the same old dating game.

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Change your life

How long are you going to wait to find healthy love?

A month? A year? 10 Years?

Some of my clients by the time they start to work with me have wasted an average of 6 years trying to figure it out on their own.  

Most single people make the mistake of guessing. 

The go on dating apps, they maybe try a blind date, all the while hoping....

"this is the one". And then wonder why they keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners, toxic relationships, avoidant people. 

And the truth is...

 

 

It's not who you are attracting that is the problem...

It's who you are attracted to. 

Your nervous system (the place that makes all your thoughts, feelings and behaviours)  is wired to be attracted to what you have known before. 

And so if all you have ever known is unhealthy love, that's exactly what you will be attracted to. Even if...

logically it isn't what you want. 

The good thing is:

You're not stuck and I’ll show you exactly how to rewire it so that you are attracted to decent people who will love you for you.  

I want this

How long are you going to wait to find healthy love?

A month? A year? 10 Years?

Some of my clients by the time they start to work with me have wasted an average of 6 years trying to figure it out on their own. 

Most single people make the mistake of guessing. 

The go on dating apps, they maybe try a blind date, all the while hoping....

"this is the one". And then wonder why they keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners, toxic relationships, avoidant people. 

And the truth is...

 

It's not who you are attracting that is the problem...

It's who you are attracted to. 

Your nervous system (the place that makes all your thoughts, feelings and behaviours)  is wired to be attracted to what you have known before. 

And so if all you have ever known is unhealthy love, that's exactly what you will be attracted to. Even if...

logically it isn't what you want. 

The good thing is:

You're not stuck and I’ll show you exactly how to rewire it so that you are attracted to decent people who will love you for you.

I want this!

I grew up watching an

unhealthy relationship

An then every relationship I ever had was the same. 

And then I became a Probation Officer and saw the most extreme cases of unhealthy relationships, lack of self worth and confidence and I realised I had a chance to change. 

I used all my training, all my experience to teach myself how to heal and now... I help singles rewire their nervous system so that they can find healthy, peaceful love just like I did..

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LET'S TALK RESULTS

"I saw the program and didn't sign up the first time.

I spent the next 6 months kicking myself, so once I joined, I went all in.

Within a week, I felt more confident with myself, at work, with friends."

- Nina

"When I healed my nervous system, calm love stopped feeling boring and started feeling safe.

That’s when I met my husband and it instantly felt completely different from every relationship I'd ever had."

- Sian

It wasn't that long ago that I was sitting where you are right now...

Tired of attracting the same types of people, thinking there was something wrong with me. 

I'd had therapy, I'd read the self help books. 

It was only when I realised I could create my own healing journey based on the evidence based practice and what I's learnt over the years. 

And that's exactly what I did, everything you see today, I created for myself and since then I have help 1000's of other heal their nervous system so they can finally attract healthy aligned love. 

 

PS. that's me with my husband who I met once I was healed. 

The starting point for anyone wanting to find healthy love

THE SELF LOVE BLUEPRINT!